I just might be the phantom of the opera's biggest fan!!

Latley ive just been so stressed and from talking to my friends it seems like they have been feeling the same way. School is just a pain in the ass, i got outta the "yay, im in college faze" and now i just cant wait til summer. I dont know what im doing next year when it comes to housing or not housing on campus. Part of me thinks i shouldnt house because i dont live that far away, however, when my mom went on vacation for a week and i had to come home and dog sit, i commuted that week. It was horrible, it took 45 mins to get to school each day and i dont know if i can handle that. Traveling during rush hour sucks. Also, now Kristen (my roomate now) and my good friend amy want to get a triple together in the Newst nicest hall. If i put the housing deposit down and my dad changes his mind about me dorming, its 300 dollar gone. Also, if they go into a triple and my dad says i cant dorm then, im fucking them over. Then they will be stuck paying more in the triple and with a random girl they dont know as their roomate. Im just so torn with that.

If your wondering about my original plan of transferring to Purchase, i still havent heard back from them. I called today and they never recieved my academic recommendation letter and it must have gotten lost in the mail. Just my luck! so now i emailed the professor to Fax them over a copy. This will definitley effect the chances of getting in. So im not even really thinking i will get in because of the complications and its so late to find out now. I have to start registering for classes and putting deposits.

Along with that stuff stressing me out. Justin works too much. Theres not a lot i can do about it and i dont wanna be too much of a pain in the arse but this is his schedule.
Monday/wednesday/friday- class til 7 :30 at night
tuesday/thursday/saturday/ and sunday- work 10 am- 9 pm
He sees me on fridays to saturdays most of the time. He didnt used to work saturdays but now that his uncle(who he works for) fired somone his uncle always just makes him work. He doesnt even say no, because he feels a family obligation. Its not just me being affected, if it was i could probabley deal. However, its really taking a toll on his school work! He isnt doing too well in school and it because i feel like he puts more time and energy into working. Its good to have a good work ethic, but c'mon , take a day off! He knows in his mind this is the reason he is so stressed, but will never admitt it. His uncle doesnt help either, every free moment he has shouldnt be spent working, its not normal.Its not like he works a 4 hours shift, ITS ALL DAY!
Im worried about him.. and weve gotten into arguments about it but theres nothing i can do, he has to just realize on his own this is crazy.